A Waterfront Wedding at Kiana Lodge | Tamar + Hank
Tamar and Hank’s wedding brought everyone together on the other side of the water in Poulsbo, Washington. Friends and family traveled from all over to spend the day with them at Kiana Lodge, surrounded by the shoreline, evergreens, and everything that makes a Pacific Northwest wedding feel distinctly like the Pacific Northwest.
Their day was centered around community. Tamar and her mom hand-stamped the chuppah together, their ceremony took place overlooking the water, and later everyone packed the dance floor for the Hora.
I photographed it all on a mix of digital and film, making space for intentional portraits while keeping the rest of the day focused on what was actually happening around them.
A Waterfront Wedding at Kiana Lodge
Getting to Poulsbo from Seattle is part of what makes a wedding here feel like you've actually gone somewhere.
Crossing the water immediately changes the pace. By the time you arrive on the Kitsap Peninsula, you're surrounded by shoreline, trees, and a quieter landscape while still being within reach of Seattle.
Kiana Lodge sits directly on Agate Passage, with gardens, towering evergreens and waterfront views throughout the property. The setting feels naturally Pacific Northwest without needing much added to it.
For Tamar and Hank, it meant they could bring everyone they loved together somewhere that felt removed from the city and let the entire wedding happen in one place.
A Wedding Built Around Community
The thing I remember most about Tamar and Hank's wedding isn't one particular detail. It's how surrounded they were by people.
Their friends and family had traveled from all over to be there, and that sense of community carried through the entire day.
One of my favorite details was their chuppah. Tamar and her mom hand-stamped it themselves, turning something already meaningful to their ceremony into something completely personal to their family.
Those are always the details I'm most interested in photographing. Not things added simply because a wedding is supposed to have them, but objects and traditions that tell you something about the people getting married.
Wedding Portraits Along the Water
Kiana Lodge gave us plenty to work with without needing to leave the property.
We made portraits around the grounds and along the water, using the landscape as part of the photographs rather than treating it as a backdrop.
That's the balance I've grown to love on a wedding day.
I want enough time to make photographs that feel thoughtful and composed. Images where we've paid attention to the light, the environment, what you're wearing, and how everything fits together.
But I don't want photography to become the event.
Once we've made those portraits, you should be able to return to your people and actually experience your wedding.
A Jewish Wedding Ceremony in the Pacific Northwest
Tamar and Hank were married beneath the chuppah Tamar created with her mom, surrounded by their community and the landscape of the Puget Sound.
The combination felt especially beautiful here. Something handmade and deeply personal against a setting that was already visually complete.
Later, that energy shifted from ceremony into celebration.
The Hora was one of those parts of the day where there was nothing to manufacture. Everyone was involved. People were moving in every direction. Tamar and Hank were quite literally lifted into the middle of their community.
Those photographs sit beside the quieter portraits in their finished gallery, and I think both are necessary.
Photographed on Digital + Film
I photographed Tamar and Hank's Kiana Lodge wedding using both digital and film.
Rather than trying to make every photograph look or feel the same, I like having both mediums available and choosing what works for the moment in front of me.
Some photographs are carefully considered portraits. Others happen in half a second on a dance floor.
A complete wedding gallery should have room for both.
I want couples to receive the beautiful photographs we intentionally made together, but also everything surrounding them: their parents, friends arriving from across the country, the table before dinner begins, someone's hand on a shoulder, the chaos of the Hora, the landscape, and the people who made the trip to be there.
Pacific Northwest Weddings That Feel Like Somewhere
There is something special about getting married on the water in Washington.
You don't necessarily have to travel far from Seattle for a wedding to take on the feeling of a destination. A ferry ride, a weekend away, and having everyone gathered together somewhere surrounded by water can completely change the experience.
For couples drawn to island weddings, waterfront estates, private homes, and celebrations built around bringing their favorite people together, the Pacific Northwest has an incredible amount to work with.
The best ones don't need to feel overly produced.
A beautiful place. Thoughtful choices. Good food. Everyone you love in one place. Enough time to make a handful of photographs together, and then permission to go enjoy the party.
That's more than enough.